Mingle Mayhem is taking over Upstairs at Bow for a one-night-only social experiment disguised as a party! This isn’t speed dating or another awkward mixer. It’s structured chaos, backed by psychology, built by scientists and matchmakers who know what actually sparks connection.

You’ll move through a series of flirty, fast-paced games and curated conversations - designed to help you challenge your “type,” rethink your assumptions, and talk to people you wouldn’t normally meet (and might actually like). You’ll have the chance to talk to a lot of people - but nothing is forced. Every game is optional and built to give you an easy way in, not box you into awkward moments.

Themed cocktails from The Bar at Nook will keep things loose. We’ll guide you through the night - whether you’re an overthinker, a slow burner, or someone who thrives in organized chaos. And when you do meet someone you click with? Our signature calling card system lets you safely exchange info only if you both want to…no pressure, no awkward ask—just connection, on your terms.

Somerville’s biggest singles night is back—drinks, sparks, and cuties packed into Bow Market. Find your next crush HERE